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Please see our wiki for more information about rules , flair , subreddit jargon , and more. This page is a compilation in no particular order of high-effort posts and comments that users have made in PPD over the years. This resource is meant only to document and encourage high-effort participation. Are men generally more attracted to light skinned women than dark skinned women? If so, is it because men are bombarded by Eurocentric beauty ideals in the media or is it simply just rooted in biology?
In my experience, men prefer light skinned women over dark skinned women. I'd argue that this contributes to why black women struggle in the SMP and complain about black men not committing to them. This also can explain why Indian men complain about not being able to get white women. It can also explain why Indian women use whitening cream to keep themselves fair.
Many darker skinned women like to complain about Eurocentric or white beauty standards pervading society. I would argue that Eurocentric or white beauty standards are the norm because it's what men find the most attractive. Men have generally preferred light skinned women over dark skinned women regardless of what year or continent you're in.
I believe men preferring light skinned women over dark skinned women is analogous to women preferring tall men over short men. I personally think it's more nurture than nature. The white guys I know that grew up in Boston prefer black and spanish women. I'm black but grew in a predominately white suburb of Boston and prefer white women.
I mean, I'm black but grew up in a predominately white and Hispanic environment and prefer Hispanic and white men. It's not even a conscious thing. Like, my kindergarten crush was this lily white boy who oddly enough, now plays basketball and has a black fiancee because that's who I was surrounded by. All the other black kids in my environment the small handful likewise tended to feel similarly so we sort of either ignored or cancelled each other out as relationship prospects.
The majority of them at least in my area anyway who tend to prefer black and Latina women very rarely attempt to "act black" or could qualify as "wiggas" in any way. They're just regular dudes developed a taste for darker-toned, or at least more "ethnic" women and have capitalized on both the variety and the availability. Multiculturalism teases out the true beauty standards of the human race, when the ethnicities are separated they find their own ethnic counterparts attractive, when freed from the constraints of isolation and geography, the true human ideal is revealed on the open SMP.
IMO mixed race people have the best aesthetics. I'm glad there will be more of them in the future. People have been conditioned from the get go to find black people unattractive. White people used to keep darker skinned people in zoos. You can't compare this to women not fucking guys under 6 feet. Jesus, I spent the better part of last night researching freakshows and human zoos so this hits home. Same reason black women walk around with weave and colored contacts and Mexican girls say shit like "Oh my god, I'ma get so dark" when they're outside playing soccer for too long.
No Africans or Natives were saying that shit 1, years ago. Exotic is sexy, probably something that has evolved because it was benificial in avoiding inbreeding or something, and its not exclusive to whitey. From what ive heard black women in USA tend to be very dominant, im pretty sure warm, cute, and feminine black women do fine with other races, but thats just guessing.
The big turn off for black girls is their culture and attitude, i'm from baltimore so the culture might not be the same everywhere you go but its pretty bad here. It just requires much more upkeep to stay nice compared to other girls, the amount of girls I see that put in that extra effort daily is small. Other girls have more room for error and some can get away with being a bit lazy, black girls do not have this luxury they will come off as trashy if they tried to get away with what other girls get away with.
At some point they're two sides of the same coin. This is essentially nature vs. Does media solely describe nature? Or does it nurture our desires. I doubt it's that simple. What I want and what you want may be different By homogenising these differences and creating a desire through various forms of marketing. Just look at the diamond business and de beers. On the one hand I see plenty of guys gravitating towards the generic porn star-look light-skinned, bright blonde , on the other hand, mixed-looking people are regularly considered more attractive than the "purer" specimen.
I'd say rarity or rather the appeal of exoticity has a hand in this - most ethnicities on Earth have dark hair and dark eyes, therefore chromatic eyes and brighter hair become more interesting.
If I am not mistaken, in India this issue also has an ethnic element - lighter skin correlates with higher caste, therefore there is an additional appeal to not appearing "dark-skinned".
I prefer lighter toned women but I do still find dark skinned women attractive if they are feminine. Many black girls have deeper voices and masculine posturing. I like feminine submissive girls. What about white women with suntans? Why do men seem to prefer them over the pale ones if white skin is so desirable biologically? In my opinion, the desire for white but suntanned skin is cultural, not biological.
Tanning as a "hobby" yes, that can be very harmful however people who are "outdoorsy" i. I mean, being pale went out of fashion the moment people stopped possessing such a preoccupation with being extremely fair-skinned and associating such with being "upper class". It used to show that the person had leisure time because they weren't working in the sun. Now a tan often shows that instead because more work takes place indoors. I've heard it argued that the suntan is 'biologically' more desirable due to the fact that it signified a better absorption of vitamin D.
The 'tan' is a relatively new phenomena. I think people in general prefer light skin to dark skin. However, it is more pronounced in men due to sexual dimorphism. Women tend to be lighter skinned than men, just like they tend to be less hairy than men.
Men prefer light-skinned women because its a more 'honest' signal of youth. Men prefer youth because its a signal of fertility. This is an advantage for black women when they are middle aged, but not so much when they are young.
This is also why blondes are preferred, blonde hair goes grey quicker than other hair colours. Again, a more 'honest' signal of fertility. I think men prefer light skinned women for the most part however, I haven't really encountered the problems a lot of black women purportedly face in terms of dating - I'm talking actual dating, not just a casual lay.
But then, I grew up in a major "melting pot" metropolitan area so that could be why. Having access to and experience with a variety of women outside the stereotypical "norms" does go a long way to altering one's perspective on things. No, I'm a light caramel colored Black girl and I think tons of guys actually like my skin tone. Plus, lots of the Black women in the media are my kind of caramely color and we obviously are not pale or even White looking.
I'm only attracted to Black, Asian and Latino men and I date athletes at my college current bf is 6'3 football player here, from Ivory Coast. The White guys I live around are some of the ugliest men I have ever come across in general, and Black women don't want them. You all need to get off of your high horses thinking you're special and then turning around and going on all of these crazy public shooting sprees.
White men are nothing special and most women don't even want you, stop trying to make it seem like you losers are turning down anyone. White women barely want you these days, lol. I'd speculate that even if a man isn't born with an innate preference for light skin tone in a woman, he could develop one.
But not necessarily from Eurocentric beauty ideals. In my neck of the woods, women of all colors are lacking in traditionally feminine qualities and energy. But this seems more common and pronounced in darker skinned women. I know a fair share of black ladies who have no shortage of suitors. But they are quieter, gentler, sweeter and generally softer around the edges than not only the average black woman, but the average woman period.
I find a number of black women attractive but it is certainly much less than other races. Firstly, where I live, they are much more likely to be obese. They also typically dress and style themselves in ways that lack "sophistication" that I did unattractive. For the most part this isn't because they are black. It's because they come from a very different socioeconomic background than me. They are typically less educated, less healthy, and have a completely different set of values than I do.
Black women from a similar socioeconomic group as me tend to be much more likely to be attractive. Two of my greatest pre-marriage flings were with a Chilean girl and a Thai girl who's parents were from Pakistan. One of my greatest sexual? I agree that men prefer light skinned women than dark skinned women. It is a far bigger thing there, to the extent of using skin whiteners and not going outside for fear of a tan. I think a lightly tanned, Mediterranean skin tone is seen as the most desirable in Western culture.
I have type 1 skin extremely white and I consider it a negative. The last time I got a spray tan the lady commented that I was the whitest person she had ever encountered and I was sort of hurt by her comment I don't think she meant to offend me. I don't think fair skin is seen as desirable at all in the West.
I don't think it's as much about beauty standards as it is about privilege./p>
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Her melanin glowed to me and at a time when some girls my age wanted a boyfriend or bigger breasts, I wanted dark skin like my mother's. I would often look at her and wonder how someone could call her skin ugly or unappealing when I looked at it and saw pure gold. I grew up repulsed by the way my skin left visible acne scars all over my face and the way hair showed so easily on my body. My skin had became a sheet of just utter hate on my body that I wanted to tear off.
I couldn't tell anybody because it was unheard of, you know? You never hear about a little light skinned girl wanting to be dark skinned. It's always the other way around. It's always the little dark girl picking the light skinned baby doll and believing that it is the most complete and fascinating thing in the world. The girls I went to school with growing up didn't like me. I never blamed them though. It wasn't their fault rather what they were taught, maybe by their parents and then from their grandparents and then their grandparent's parents.
They were programmed to believe that my black was beautiful and their's wasn't. It's crazy how they hated me due to my skin tone and due to preconceived notions about me 'thinking I was all that' when I would have traded skin tones with them in a heart beat. I thought to myself that I would fit right in without a second look. See, at a HBCU the colors vary from white to the most chocolate brown and it doesn't matter what color you are. In college, people are much more mature and educated.
There wasn't blatant colorism but it still existed subtly. It was being in History , learning about the Bantus and speaking in class and everyone turning around with a face I knew all too well.
It says "Are you even fully black? Why are you talking? Colorism is another thing that was not created but forced upon us. The white man separated us: We're so caught up on these preconceived notions of each other, we fail to realize the big picture. Not to mention, black men sometimes don't make it any better. As black women, we are pitted against each other based off of how we look: Hate has been so imbedded in us, blacks hate other blacks for being black.
We forget that as black women our struggles are much more alike than we admit. No one women's struggle is less important than another one's. When it comes down to it we all share bloodlines with greats like Fanny Lou Hamer, Ella Baker, Dorothy Heights and Harriet Tubman, and each day we stand in the merit of their work. We progress and prosper while at the same time facing adversity, from being told we aren't quite enough of this or too much of that. Despite these things and the various shades that we may come in we are all still black and are the similar in essence.
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